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fatherlessmale.com
Did you grow up without your dad at home, and it made a hole in your heart?
Please, read on.
Are you looking for your value as a human being?
Please, read on.
Are you looking for a path into successful manhood?
Please, read on.
Stepping into manhood is like moving to a new city.
Who teaches young men to navigate adult life?
Many of us had an in-home father to train us,
but not all of us....
This website is for men who grew up without biodads at home,
no matter your age or your culture .
I have built this website to browse like your cell phone.
Scroll down, and 'Read to Succeed.'
Eric J. Rose
HOME
page arrangement
Each page of this website is built like a short passenger train,
sections are joined together in a string, from top to bottom.
sections are joined together in a string, from top to bottom.
You can browse it like your cell phone.
A page may have a few sections. This page has 5 sections.
Please read down until you reach the orange bumper at the bottom of each page.
This website has 6 main topics:
1) Your Value:
God values you. Family issues do not disqualify you from God's love.
2) Assessment:
We sort out the many, many ways to be fatherless. There are so many.3) 4 Points:
The four major strengths a competent man brings to society and to his family.
4) Self:
Understanding what personality-strengths a man needs to succeed -
and the issues common to fatherless men.
5) Marriage:
Basic skills and tactics for a successful marriage.
6) God:
A basic understanding of God, who is also called 'The Eternal Father'.
Note: I am not trained, ordained or licensed in any religious calling,
or in any therapeutic discipline, or in any mental health discipline.
I am a regular man who wants to help ease the pain I see in fatherless people.
I have been told that I have unique observation skills. You decide if this is true.
Take a moment to study this baseball clip.
Many fatherless guys feel like this outfielder, with no ball to throw,
I qualify on both counts there.
but they go through the motions anyway,
hoping no one can see what's really happening.
This website is to help fatherless males learn to be a competent adult male.
This website is to help fatherless males learn to be a competent adult male.
Now, being an older white man who grew up with a biodad at home,
we all know I can't speak exactly to fatherless men.
Yet, anyone wanting to learn any worthy trade (including marriage and fatherhood)
learns best from someone who grew up in the trade and has practiced that trade.
Old baseball players often make good trainers.
And a young man of color can learn baseball from an older white man.
Someone wanting to learn responsible masculinity,
is best taught by a man that had a father-at-home,
and was a biodad-at-home to his own children.
is best taught by a man that had a father-at-home,
and was a biodad-at-home to his own children.
I qualify on both counts there.
Wait! What about fatherless females?
Men, perhaps you have a sister riding in the same boat as you.
America probably has as many fatherless females as fatherless males.
I've seen the pain of these grown women -
on TV paternity shows, searching for their biological daddies.
This website will have some help for these women,
but was not written specifically for women...
because...
I don't understand female-fatherlessness well enough to
to know how to help them as grown women,
except to explain the universal human value that we all have.
So, I invite fatherless women to browse this website
for there are some things here that will help - especially if she has been sexually abused.
Feel free to share this website with your Sis.
Yes, there are also things in here that are not appropriate for most children.
Eric J. Rose
