Self Intro

The Journey Inside...

We need to talk more about the inner man,
that grew up without a biodad-at-home.
who now needs to build doors - to healthy relationships
but also needs to build walls - around unhealthy behaviors,

We need to discuss the beliefs and attitudes that create our behaviors.

It's time to take off the mask of what we pretend to be
and build ourselves into who we really should be.

Fatherless people are in the high-risk category in life
because of the setbacks they faced when young.

So, this part of the website identifies spots that need fixing,
so fatherless people can stand on level ground and compete with fully-fathered people.

This may mean hand-to-hand mentoring from other men, 
who are experienced in the fatherhood-cycle.
Hand-to-hand mentoring can have intentionally-rough edges, meant to produce good results.

Remember, change is sometimes immediate, but sometimes change is gradual, cell by cell.
Whenever I despair of becoming who I really want to be
this Bible verse is a wellspring of hope:

1John 3
See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! 
And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 
2 Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known, 
But we know that when Christ appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is. 
3 All who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.



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